Tuesday, February 28, 2023

The patron saint of blogging

I started writing this blog in late 2007—for all practical purposes, in 2008. And early on I had an idea that I thought immensely cool. Like many of my cool ideas I never got around to writing or posting it. (I have notes to myself, on little scraps of paper, for dozens of posts that I have yet to write—some for here and some for the Patio.) Then a few years later (I think it was late 2011 or so) D made me a present of a book which captured the very same idea and explained it a lot more lucidly than I ever did. So with your indulgence. I will start with a quote.

The twenty-first century is full of people who are full of themselves. A half-hour's trawl through the online ocean of blogs, tweets, tubes, spaces, faces, pages, and pods brings up thousands of individuals fascinated by their own personalities and shouting for attention. They go on about themselves; they diarize, and chat, and upload photographs of everything they do. Uninhibitedly extrovert, they also look inward as never before. Even as bloggers and networkers delve into their private experience, they communicate with their fellow humans in a shared festival of the self. …

… The historian Theodore Zeldin has founded a site called "The Oxford Muse," which encourages people to put together brief self-portraits in words, describing their everyday lives and the things they have learned. They upload these for other people to read and respond to. For Zeldin, shared self-revelation is the best way to develop trust and cooperation around the planet, replacing national stereotypes with real people. … By describing what makes them different from anyone else, the contributors reveal what they share with everyone else: the experience of being human.

This idea—writing about oneself to create a mirror in which other people recognize their own humanity—has not existed forever. It had to be invented. And unlike many cultural inventions, it can be traced to a single person: Michel Eyquem de Montaigne, a nobleman, government official, and winegrower who lived in the PĂ©rigord area of southwestern France from 1533 to 1592.*

Thursday, February 16, 2023

Hair, part 5

I've written about body hair here, here, here, and here, arguing in favor of leaving it where it is rather than shaving it off. No, I'm not a Sikh; but on this one point I sure agree with them.

Anyway, I just read a social media post (from LinkedIn) that picks a whole different kind of fight about hair, and good for them. This time it's about black women's hair, arguing that it shouldn't have to be straightened in order to present a "professional look" in the workplace. For the most part that's not a fight I have a direct personal stake in. But at a conceptual level, it is all about presenting the body as it really is, and not trying to force it to be something it ain't. So I'm all in favor of that. Three cheers!