If I'd known more about the Middle Ages?

I first started this blog -- way back when -- because I needed some place that I could talk out loud about Wife's serial infidelities and how confused they left me.

Now I read in Eleanor Janega's delightful blog "Going Medieval" that this was absolutely expected and taken for granted in the Middle Ages. Men didn't like it, but they looked on it as inevitable, kind of like bad weather.

See especially this post here: On cuckolding – a thing – Going Medieval (going-medieval.com) 

And gosh, come to think of it … Wife's academic specialty was as a medievalist. If only I'd known, right?